An empath and an INFJ in MBTI, I have been crying every now and then, and I am fully aware and as well understand where these emotions/tears are coming from. My trying so hard to be an INTJ helps very little. Sad..
Almost a hundred days past Cocoy Laurel's death, after 58 days of Guy's (when he chose to follow), I know I won't be able to put an end to my falling tears, out of my personal devastation because I feel so hard for their lonesome unfulfilled supposed-to-be twin flame/soul journey, if I fail to vent this out.
A twin flame is not here for a romantic purpose alone. It is, most of all, here to do the task of reminding everyone that honest real love is a soul thing. And that unless each of them takes care of his/her own self, there won't happen a completion of perfect union on Earth. Each is not here to save the other.
In the completion of task, the self is first. This is where the so-called individuation is most needed as this involves a serious and bloody shadow-work. "There is no coming to consciousness without pain." -Carl G. Jung
When individuation is all taken care of, integration/reintegration must come next. This is the merging of anima and animus. This follows the universal law of gender, as each one of us has both male and female characteristics. It is but a matter of which particular energy one is more prone into.
In the case of Cocoy and Guy, the latter is more observable to carry a male energy than the former. That is why in their twin flame journey, which naturally involves a runner and a chaser archetypes, Cocoy had been shown to be loving Guy the most. But that is only because they both did not know what was happening exactly behind their own dynamics.
Each one in a twin flame journey must know and embody love as it should be: inclusive, as is dictated in the universal law of one. So that when both of them have attained already this, and thus, choose and decide to come/stay together as one, they can forge finally a third energy which is needed in humanity's ascension.
We all are here for everybody. But society's constructs had been most difficult for the many of us to break away from, especially the standards in socio-ecomomic strata complicated pa more with the elderlies' control issues because they tend to put more importance on their reputation. Ay naku, patay talaga tayo d'yan!
With the parents of Cocoy and Guy, hats off ako sa kanila. They supported the young lovers from the very beginning. Nora's Mamay Tunying, accordingly, was very respectful that she'd remind Guy not to tarnish the Laurel's name. They were all loving of one another. (My tears falling here again, kasi bibihira ang ganyan.) Cocoy's Mommy Celia, on the other hand, taught Cocoy to always consider the other as better than he was. Maybe it was her way of implanting in him humility. Kaya gano'n na lang kung parang sambahin n'ya si Guy, aside from his love for her. And also why Cocoy was evasive and extremely shy despite his popularity and accomplishments.
Guy, on the other hand, since siguro (I'm not sure) namatay ang Mamay n'ya had nobody to guide her wholeheartedly, ay napunta sa hindi mga kaayaaya'ng pangyayari sa buhay n'ya dulot na rin ng marami'ng mga bagay at mapagsamatalang mga tao. Ego entity can easily eat someone up when devoid of self conscious awareness. The end of her days, which was what, 34 years (?), was probably her most difficult. I could only surmise. "Control yourself, or the universe will send you someone to control you." Ang dami'ng naglipanang narcissists sa mundong ito.
While everybody deserves second chances, you can only redeem yourself through self awareness. We are God's co-creators. Minamahal lang tayo ng Diyos regardless what we do with our life, dahil nga Diyos S'yang hindi nagbibigay ng anumang kondisyon, pero kung hindi mo tuturuan ang sarili mo na ganoon ka rin dapat magmahal, darating ang araw na naubos na pala ang second chances mo.
Twins normally undergo similar patterns, like firstly, the bubble phase era. Tapos maghihiwalay, magbabalikan, maghihiwalay uli, magbabalikan na naman, for how many times nobody exactly know dahil each path is unique, just like each individual's life journey is unique. Walang magkatulad.
Cocoy's last attempt to see Guy in the U.S. na sabi ay hindi s'ya hinarap pained me the most kasi out of his innocent child-like love for her, he was most probably overcame by his hero archetype as his motivation for going there to see her. When that is coupled by a messiah complex pa, walang kapantay na sakit ang dulot n'yan. Most of the extremely religious are victimized by that mentality. We are not here to save. We are here to serve. LIFE IS MEANT FOR FRIENDSHIPS AND SERVICE.
However, let us celebrate them - Victor Laurel & Nora Aunor - they were sent us as inspirations. Their names spelt everything to be amazed and thankful about. Do your research. I did mine. "There are no coincidences nor accidents in life. Everything happens for a reason."💜
A twin flame journey is for transformation.
Hope is what I will leave you for now, those in a twin flame/soul journey especially, with my favorite line of Mr. Ryan Cayabyab's SOMETIME, SOMEWHERE, sang by Victor Laurel: "sometime.. our sometime will be for all time; somewhere.. our somewhere will not only be in one place, but everywhere."
A soul is in all places all at the same time.🙏
Hanggang sa muli. Mag-iingat po ang lahat. Take charge of each of your own life.😘💕
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